i'm back... unfortunately for you

hey everybody... i'm back. obviously. i hope you all had fun partying without me, and as i'm sure you did i won't bore you with my awesome trip, cause you might already know about it anyways. at any rate, it was fun, i missed you all, and i'm very much looking foward to going to camp on wednesday.
well let's see... i told emily a while ago that my "shells" post had such a wonderful response that maybe i should just make this a discussion blog. interesting idea. at any rate, i have a question for all you semi-loyal readers out there. (it came up over the trip when i was talking to someone on the phone whose name won't be mentioned for multiple reasons) (i think maybe that last comment was supposed to be kinda funny... but it didn't work) anyways... so... i'd apreciate comments and wonderful discussion again, cause i always like to see everybody's opinion on these interesting things that are relevant to out lives... or at least to some of our lives... okay, so after that unneccesary explanatory rambling, here goes: is there really only one person in the world that you're made for???
i've heard several opinions on this, ranging from "yes absolutely" to "hell no, find someone hott and make it work" (no... they weren't joking unfortunately) and everywhere in between, including that "you could make it work with at least a good handful of people, but the reason there only seems to be one person for you is because God already knows the one that you're gonna run into- if you ran into one of the other ones instead, then they would have been the one for you, but as it is, God sees the future and therefore which one you'll end up with." so... where do you fall here? (please don't give me the second answer from this last paragraph! lol)